Where Darkness Softens Into Light
 
Hope begins as a whisper long before it becomes a song.
 
“The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.”
— Isaiah 9:2
 
As I walk around the garden on this windy, chilly morning, I can almost hear the soundtrack to The Lion King playing in my head. The words from “Circle of Life” have become an unexpected earworm on this late autumn day. The once vibrant plants are laying down now, beginning their quiet return to the earth, slowly becoming soil again and preparing the way for future life in the compost bin.
 
We were out having dinner with old friends last evening, celebrating recent birthdays, when that text came through. It was the kind of message none of us want to receive yet are never surprised by. Our friend’s aunt passed away after a long illness at age 95. A full life, a blessing in so many ways, and still the ache remains, especially in this season.
 
Loss has a way of showing up uninvited this time of year. The chair sits empty. A bottle of Jameson Irish Whiskey remains unopened. Traditions that once anchored us simply do not happen anymore. I always feel a touch of the Holiday Blues as December settles in. And yet, I still find myself looking forward to the small things that make this season shine.
 
This past weekend we went to a Christmas concert. The lights dimmed, and a children’s choir entered holding candles and singing “Silent Night” with voices that sounded like they had drifted straight from heaven. Tears streamed down my cheeks, and for a moment I knew I was not alone. Advent became real in that instant. We were not celebrating Santa Claus. We were preparing for the Light of the World to come and scatter the darkness.
 
The circle of life keeps turning. The darkness will end. The light will return. For now, we wait. We wait and we listen. And sometimes, if we are paying attention, we catch a glimpse of heaven, like when children gather and sing of a holy night where all is calm and all is bright.
 
For now, we pray for that heavenly peace to come and fill us all.
 
Because love always breaks through.

​Peace in the Stillness
 
The weekend warmth melted the last of November’s snow, leaving only scattered leaves upon the damp ground. In this second week of Advent, we light two candles as we prepare the way of the Lord. The Gospel of Matthew tells of John the Baptist, blazing a trail for the One who is to come. We, too, wait and long for the light’s return.
 
The little Doodle girl and I wandered out on this brisk, cloudy morning. The beauty of the fallen leaves reminds us to cherish the present moment. Life is always moving, always changing, and it is our calling to make the very most of the gifts we are given.
 
Advent invites us into stillness. A pause from the busy-ness, a chance to listen. In the daily noise of this chaotic season, we yearn for quiet contemplation, for that wee, small voice breaking through the gloom of late autumn.
 
Walking in the early morning darkness, I breathe deeply. A cold breeze brushes my face, and I remember the words: “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.” (John 14:27).
 
Peace.
 
Candles flicker, leaves may fall, but love endures.

Love Breaks Through: An Advent Morning in the Garden
“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”
— John 1:5
 
The world outside is freezing, even with the sun shining brightly in the blue sky above. The chill has settled into the Garden. Temperatures have hovered below freezing for days, and remnants of last weekend’s snowstorm still cling to the edges of things. What always surprises me is that even in this frigid stillness, there is life in the Garden. The green remains in the darkest, coldest times. Life breaks through. Love breaks through.
 
“See, I am doing a new thing… now it springs up; do you not perceive it?”
— Isaiah 43:19
 
Love breaks through.
 
That was the thought that struck me this morning as I noticed a small touch of green poking through the leaves in the stump of the old tree. Even on the coldest day of December so far, life keeps going. Even when we feel so low we’re not sure we can rise again, love comes through. A little light breaks into the darkness and reminds us that this season, whatever it is, will not last forever. Love breaks through.
 
As I walk through the Garden on this frosty Advent morning, I’m struck by the stark beauty that remains. When I think of the Garden, I think of it in spiritual terms. This is my sanctuary. Working in the Garden is my prayer time. And yet, this time of year is more difficult. The cold sinks deep into my bones, and my arthritic hips and knees protest the season. Still, the Garden calls me, if only to gather fallen branches or check on the bird feeders.
 
“Hope does not disappoint us.”
— Romans 5:5
 
The Garden calls.
The cold will only last for a while.
The darkness will not linger forever.
The light is coming.
 
We wait in hope and in faith.
We believe, again and again, that love will break through.
 
Because Love always breaks through.
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Bare Branches, Bright Hope
“To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven.”
— Ecclesiastes 3:1
 
Winter’s Reminder
 
The cold and snow have lingered these past few days. If you were wondering whether winter had arrived, wonder no more. The trees stand bare; their leaves tucked into small crevices all around us.
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Bare trees give us hope that change is possible. A tree without leaves reminds us of the art of letting go. In early December, a tree stripped of its foliage whispers that nothing is meant to last forever. Sometimes we must release certain things: relationships, jobs, even old habits, in order to grow and thrive. It’s a powerful metaphor for life, one that has resonated for centuries.

Life is nothing but a cycle of changes. Endings are not failures; they are necessary passages. Even a fallen leaf carries beauty, teaching us to honor the close of autumn. There is wisdom scattered across the ground, in the leaves beneath our feet and in the stark silhouettes of the trees above.

This season also reminds us of the importance of waiting. As Advent begins, we light a candle and ponder the beauty that can appear from winter’s stillness. The light will come. Until then, the fallen leaves remind us of endings with beauty, the bare trees remind us of change with promise, and the Advent candle reminds us of light yet to come. In the stillness of winter, may we wait with hope, pray with trust, and welcome the new growth that is on its way.
 
“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.”
— Lamentations 3:22–23
 
Leaves may fall, but love endures.

First Snow: Sacred Silence
“Be still and know that I am God.”
— Psalm 46:10
 
We stepped outside this past weekend to find the garden wrapped in pillowy white. The city stood still, cloaked in silence. Streets lay empty, the noise of the world muffled. In that moment, it did not feel cold, it felt sacred, as though time itself paused.
 
The garden was already in its winter slumber, yet never more beautiful than when draped in a blanket of snow. Flakes continued to fall as we walked, the crunch beneath our feet the only sound breaking the stillness.
 
I love how a deep snow hushes the urban world. Living in the city, you grow accustomed to the constant hum of traffic and daily life. That presence is unrelenting until the snow gathers, softening the edges of sound. Suddenly, there is quiet. Almost no traffic. Most people are tucked inside, savoring a pause from the noise of routine, embracing a rare tranquility.
 
We have a ritual of walking the neighborhood during the first snowfall of the season. This year, we were the first to step into the newly fallen snow. The little Doodle girl’s footprints marked the sidewalk, distinct and tender. It was a moment of grace and calm, a simple reminder that the best gifts are often found in life’s quietest moments.
 
And as the snow continued to fall, I was reminded that stillness itself is a prayer, inviting us to rest in the presence of God.

​Choosing Community Over Chaos
"Seek the peace and prosperity of the city… for if it prospers, you too will prosper."
—Jeremiah 29:7
 
Black Friday is everywhere these days. From stores opening at midnight to online deals flooding our phones, it’s easy to get swept up in the frenzy. But the chaos of crowded aisles, long lines, and short tempers can test our patience and even dim our joy.
 
There is another way. Supporting local businesses on Black Friday (and every day!) is a way to nurture the long-term health and vibrancy of the places we call home. When we shop at local shops, we keep dollars circulating right here, funding public services, supporting jobs, and strengthening a sustainable local economy.
 
Independent shops, restaurants, artisans, and service providers shape the unique personality of our neighborhoods. They offer experiences and treasures you simply cannot find anywhere else. Each small business is more than a storefront. It is a dream, a livelihood, and a gift to the community.
 
Choosing not to chase the biggest discounts is not about missing out. It is about living intentionally. It is about generosity, faith, and the joy of supporting our neighbors. When we step back from the frenzy, we show that contentment and connection matter more than any sale.
 
Here are just a few ways to love your local small businesses this season:
 
•            Shop Local First – Find gifts with stories behind them.
•            Dine at Local Restaurants – They are amazing, and every meal supports a neighbor’s dream.
•            Buy Gift Cards – A simple way to give future joy.
•            Shop Locally Online – Many small businesses have websites too.
•            Spread the Word – Share your favorite finds with friends.
 
Together, we can build a stronger, kinder community, one small step, one local purchase, one act of love at a time.
 
Shop Local. Love Local. Grow Local.

​Feeling Down? Take a Walk.
 
I feel like so many of us are carrying the burdens of the world right now. There is so much happening, and some of it is simply horrifying. The hardest part is realizing how little we can actually change. At the end of the day, the only person I can truly change is the one staring back at me in the mirror.
 
I’m just an old gardener, but I’ve discovered one small thing that helps: when I feel myself getting overwhelmed and down, I take a walk.
 
It helps that I have an angel wrapped in fur who insists we get out every day for a neighborhood check‑in. Lately, it’s been multiple times a day. Not for very long, just enough time for the old person to clear her head and the pupper to check on her constituents. I’m convinced this little doodle girl believes she is the Mayor of Carondelet.
 
The holidays can be full of festivities and joy, but for some of us, they also carry a quiet ache. I’m one of those people who tends to get a bit blue this time of year. That’s why I’m so grateful for the love of Dr. B and her steady, eternal optimism. And I’m grateful for the furball who doesn’t give me the choice of staying stuck inside my head, she pulls me outside and onto my feet.
 
Walk those blues away.
 
Pray.
 
Ponder.
 
Putter.
 
And remember sometimes the holiest thing we can do is just keep walking.
 
“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”
— 1 Peter 5:7
 

​Grace in the Waiting, Gratitude in the Giving
“The people walking in darkness have seen a great light.”
— Isaiah 9:2
 
It is the final week of November. The week of Thanksgiving. Winter is just around the corner, and the last of the autumn leaves are holding on as best they can until the next gust of wind comes roaring in from the west. The rains and winds have stripped many trees of their glorious color, yet a few beauties remain. A bit of grace as we move into the darkness of winter.
 
Advent is coming this weekend. The waiting begins. Waiting is what this time of year is all about. When we were small, we waited for Santa Claus. As we grew older, we waited for the New Year’s Eve party invitation. As an old gardener who is finally beginning to understand a little, I now wait for the light to return once again.
 
Advent is the season of waiting. Waiting for the story to begin again. Waiting for the child to be born and change the world once more, as that story does every year. The waiting changes us. We learn patience. We take time for reflection. We take more time to pray. As we light the candle each evening, we stop, pray, read, and remember. The light of the world is coming once again.
 
We are looking forward to Thanksgiving. A day to eat, drink a little, enjoy football, family, and friends. A day to be thankful for all the blessings we have received. Yet it is also a time to remember that not everyone has as much to be thankful for as I do. This season calls us not only to gratitude but also to generosity. Generosity in thought, in deed, and in giving. It is Thanks-giving after all.
 
In the fading light of November, we wait and we give thanks. And in the waiting, we find the promise of light returning.
 
I pray today that gratitude fills our table.
I pray that the quiet of waiting teaches patience and prayer.
I pray that the flicker of the Advent candle reminds us that the darkness is never final.
Finally, I pray that the season ahead is filled with hope, with joy, and with peace.
Amen.

Prayer in the Mist
“What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
— Micah 6:8
 
The rain has paused, and the fog begins to lift as the little Doodle girl, and I step outside for a walk among the trees of our urban neighborhood. A hush of calm and wonder washes over us on this autumn morning. Ours is an old neighborhood, where century‑old homes stand beneath trees of equal age. Droplets fall softly at our feet. The critters stir. Birds begin to sing. The sweetness of wet leaves perfumes the air.
 
There is something sacred about a walk in misty fall. The city hums around us, yet everything feels quieter, gentler. Solace and inspiration rise as we engage with nature. Science affirms what the soul already knows: time outdoors heals us—emotionally, physically, spiritually. This morning’s walk is medicine.
 
Surrounded by beauty, my heart lightens. My mood brightens. We move more slowly today, even the Doodle pausing to notice. The details matter: rustling leaves, misty drops on our faces, the sounds of life awakening. It is prayer by walking around.
 
For years, this has been my practice—prayer woven into footsteps. Something happens when you simply walk and allow yourself to be present with the Artist of Creation. The world reawakens. It is more than walking; it is silent contemplation. A simple, profound prayer in motion.
 
I am humbled by the beauty I so often overlook. Nature’s wonder opens the door to gratitude. In these thin moments, we sense the interconnection of life. We feel the presence of the Creator. We are humbled. We are loved. We are blessed.
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May each step today be a prayer, each breath a reminder, each glance at creation a moment of gratitude.
 
Go forth in the mist,
walking humbly with your God,
and may you find yourself
loved, blessed, and renewed.

Putting Things in Order
“Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.”
—Psalm 51:10
 
It’s still dark outside as we walk through the Garden this Wednesday morning. The little Doodle girl is bouncing around, delighting in the chill and the quiet. I’m walking slowly, realizing that the Garden is finally put to bed for the season. The list of outdoor chores is complete. The list of indoor ones, however, is growing by the day.
 
This is the time of year when we repair the tools. Clean everything. Organize and reassess what’s needed. What can be salvaged, and what must be replaced. As Dr. B likes to say, it’s about putting things in order.
 
It’s also the season for pruning, not just in the Garden, but in life. I’m sorting through the clutter that’s accumulated, letting go of what I no longer need or use. It’s a good thing to do. Necessary, even.
 
And it’s a good time to look inward.
 
What in my heart needs to be surrendered to make room for grace? What hurts, frustrations, or old angers have taken root and need to be pulled up? More than I care to admit, if I’m being honest. But it’s time. Time to forgive. Time to move on. Time to lighten the load on these old knees. A little less to carry on this aching back.
 
Let go. Move forward. Forgive. Be thankful. Fix what I can. Release what I can’t. And above all, be grateful for what I have.
 
Spend a little more time with the Creator of all things. Listen more. Listen closely.
 
Lighten the load.
 
“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”
—1 Peter 5:7
 
Let stillness be a sanctuary.
Let the pruning bring peace.
Let my heart find rest in the One who tends all things with love.
As I walk through the quiet Garden,
may I feel the gentle whisper of grace
reminding me: you are loved, just the way you are.  Right now.

Gathered and Remembered
 
“Even the leaves, once fallen, find purpose again.”
 
It’s that time of year again in the Carondelet Garden. We gather fallen leaves from in and around the beds, rake them up, mow them over, and pile them into the compost cube to rest for the year ahead.
 
Through the quiet magic of fungal action—helped along by a bit of moisture, those leaves slowly transform into a rich, earthy concoction known as leaf mould. It’s one of nature’s finest gifts to the garden. With most of the leaves now down, this task should be wrapped up today.
 
The Garden is nearly tucked into its Winter mode. It’s the second half of November, and the forecast echoes what we already feel in our bones: winter is just around the corner. A gentle reminder to stock up on birdseed—watching the birds flit in and out of the feeders is one of my favorite seasonal joys.
 
We’re also deep in Thanksgiving preparations: planning menus, baking, shopping for ingredients, and readying ourselves for the big day. But it’s not just about the feast. It’s also a time of remembering. There are a few more empty chairs this year—some long gone, others more recent. We remember. We tell stories. We share a bit of Jameson Irish Whiskey. We laugh. Sometimes we cry. They’re not truly gone. They live on in our hearts, and we will see them again. For now, we give thanks for their memory and their love.
 
Thanksgiving, indeed.
 
“The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever.”
— Isaiah 40:8
 

The Sacred Art of Puttering
“The earth has music for those who listen.”
— George Santayana
 
The winter cold that wrapped us in freezing temperatures has finally loosened its grip, and Fall has returned with a soft sigh. Sunshine spills across the yard, the air is crisp but kind, and the trees, still dressed in their golden garments, hold on just a little longer. It’s the kind of day that beckons you outside, inviting you to cross a few more chores off the to-do list while soaking in the beauty.
 
When I was younger, the very idea of raking leaves or mowing grass filled me with dread. I’d invent any excuse to avoid yard work. But many years later, you’ll find me most days puttering about in the Garden, pulling a weed here, moving a plant there, or simply sitting and pondering.
 
I putter and I ponder. These quiet rituals have become more than a hobby for this old Gardener. They are my sacred rhythm, my way of connecting with the Creator of all things. The Garden is my sanctuary, my teacher, my place of spiritual growth and wonder. Working the soil, nurturing life, and watching the seasons unfold reminds me to slow down, breathe deeply, and truly connect.
 
We all need that connection with nature. For me, it’s essential. Even a short time outdoors fills me with wisdom, beauty, and a sense of awe that lingers long after I’ve come back inside. Nature has long been a spiritual guide—whispering truths, offering comfort, and revealing the divine in the ordinary.
 
By embracing nature as a teacher, we deepen our awareness and cultivate a more profound sense of spiritual growth. Gardening, in particular, offers a unique opportunity to explore this connection, to nurture not just plants, but our souls.
 
So today, I’ll put on my boots, pick up my rake, and head outside to putter a bit. I might ponder a bit too. And I know, without a doubt, I’ll feel better when I’m done.
 
“You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace;
the mountains and hills will burst into song before you,
and all the trees of the field will clap their hands.”
— Isaiah 55:12
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Winter’s Alchemy
“What you sow does not come to life unless it dies.”
—1 Corinthians 15:36
 
We planted garlic in the Garden this week. The first few weeks of November are the perfect time to tuck garlic cloves into the soil, just before winter’s chill settles in. Though it may seem counterintuitive, garlic needs the cold to grow. The freezing temperatures of winter activate its transformation, without them, the bulbs are still small and timid. But with time and patience, the harshest season becomes the spark for abundance. By next summer, the transition is complete, and we are graced with a robust, fragrant harvest.
 
Garlic, in its quiet way, teaches us about growth through adversity. Planting it now is an act of faith in the unseen, a trust that what lies dormant will one day flourish.  As we peel back the layers of this humble bulb, we uncover its deeper gifts: abundance, resilience, and renewal. Garlic reminds us to look beyond the mundane and recognize the sacred in everyday things. It whispers of prosperity and spiritual awakening, of cycles that begin in darkness and end in light.
 
Our garden, too, is a sacred space, a sanctuary where the soul can rest and reflect. It offers us a place to meditate, to grow, and to reconnect with the Creator of all things. In the garden, we learn to embrace change, to trust in renewal, and to find beauty in every season. Just as garlic transforms beneath the frost, so too do we, rooted in faith, nourished by grace, and always reaching toward the light.
 
“Unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.”
​—John 12:24

​The Garden Knows: Embracing Change with Grace
The garden teaches me: what fades is not lost, but transformed.
 
Isaiah 43:19
“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?”
 
The first hard freeze of fall arrived last night. We feel it in the crisp air, but more poignantly, we see it in the garden, the tender plants have faded, their vibrant energy gone. This is the moment when you know: something has shifted. A quiet change has taken place.
 
I’ll admit, I’m not a great lover of change. I cherish the familiar. I thrive on routine and flourish with a set schedule. Surprises? Not my favorite. I am, without a doubt, a planner. Yet, as this old gardener continues down the winding path of aging, I’m learning that change is not only inevitable, but also essential. To grow, I must be willing to adapt. And by adapting, I’m discovering, is its own form of spiritual growth.
 
I’m not sure I’ve fully embraced change and uncertainty just yet. But I’m trying.
 
Writing has become one of my most faithful companions in this process. It helps me navigate the ups and downs, the trials and tribulations, with a bit more grace. Gardening does the same. Both offer me a sense of peace, a sacred rhythm, a place to reflect, a way to find balance. They remind me that this journey, with all its twists and turns, is where spirit meets strength.
 
Even after the frost, the garden whispers: there is still beauty to be found, and strength to be grown.

​The First Frost: A Time to Harvest and Reflect
“Instructions for living a life: Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.”
—Mary Oliver
 
The first hard frost of the season is on the horizon, and we’re working quickly to gather the last of the tender vegetables before its arrival. The carrots were especially abundant this year, what a grace to witness that vibrant orange rising from the rich, dark soil. Carrot soup is surely on the menu soon, a warm tribute to the season’s generosity.
 
Frost signals the end of the growing season. Its frozen touch transforms everything it meets. And yet, we know the frost is not just an ending, it’s necessary. It reminds us that even under the harshest conditions, life continues. Nature endures. It adapts. It survives.
 
As we watch and wait, we learn. We learn that when life brings hardship, we too can adapt. We can endure. We can survive. And not just survive… but thrive.
 
This season teaches us that the hardest times often carry seeds of growth and rebirth. Renewal and change may come wrapped in cold and quiet, but they are no less sacred. As the growing season draws to a close, let us take time to rest, reflect, and renew.
 
We can adapt. We can survive. And in time, we will thrive.
 
As the frost settles and the soil rests, may we pay attention to the quiet gifts of the season. May we be astonished by resilience, by grace, by the beauty of endings. And may we tell about it, with warmth, with hope, and with the courage to begin again.
 
“To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.”
—Ecclesiastes 3:1

Rooted in Wisdom, Ready for Winter
"They will be like a well-watered garden, and they will sorrow no more."
—Jeremiah 31:12 (NIV)
 
It’s that time of year when this old gardener heads outside to finish buttoning up the garden for the coming winter. We’re expecting our first hard freeze this weekend, so it’s time to bring in the last of the houseplants. They’ve already been “quarantined” and treated with an organic spray to keep any little hitchhikers from sneaking indoors. Believe me, it’s far easier to deal with unwanted invaders before they settle in than after they’ve taken over. If you know, you know!
 
But the work of closing the garden isn’t just about scrubbing pots and prepping soil, it’s also about preparing myself. This is my time to dig a little deeper, clear out what’s no longer needed, and make space for spiritual renewal. As I create a healthier garden for the next growing season, I’m also cultivating a more grounded, spiritually healthy gardener.
 
This season reminds me to reconnect with nature and remember that everything, and everyone, is connected. We are stewards of harmony, both in the garden and in our lives.
 
The only thing that is good for any of us is that which is good for all of us. That is wisdom. And wisdom isn’t about clinging to the way things have always been done, it’s about making ancient truths come alive in the present. To stay vibrant, to stay truly alive, we must open ourselves to life’s eternal dream: the dream of becoming a better person tomorrow than we are today.
 
The work we do—and the way we do it is the legacy we leave for future generations.
 
As for me, my main goal is simple: to live. Truly live, until I die. That may just be one of life’s greatest virtues.
 
As I tuck the garden in for its winter rest, I’m reminded that dormancy is not death—it’s preparation. Beneath the surface, life stirs. Roots deepen. Soil settles. And so do I. May this season of quiet tending bring peace to your spirit and strength to your roots. Let us live fully, even in stillness.

​Twirling Leaves and Ordinary Wonder
“Wonder is the beginning of wisdom.” — Socrates
 
Luke 18:17 (NRSV):
“Truly I tell you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it.”
 
The month of Thanksgiving has begun—and it’s arriving at just the right time for this old gardener. The world feels heavy with anger and division lately. I don’t know if things are truly getting worse or if I’m simply more aware of the news. But maybe that distinction doesn’t matter. What does matter is how we choose to respond.
 
We respond with gratitude.
 
We give thanks—for the big and the small, for the beauty that still surrounds us, for the grace that quietly sustains us.
 
The leaves are changing now, and the kaleidoscope of color is spilling across the autumn skies in untold glory. I’m so thankful to live in a place that offers four full seasons of wonder. Just this past weekend, I walked with a little two-year-old beauty who was utterly captivated by a single leaf. She picked it up, twirled it in her tiny hands, and giggled with sheer delight. That moment reminded me to pause. To notice. To bear witness to the wonder that’s always around us—if only we take the time to truly see.
I’m afraid of losing that wonder. Afraid of forgetting how to be thankful for the simple things. But then I remember: You must become like a little child. A child still sees the miracle in a solitary leaf.
 
This month let’s take a moment to rediscover the joy of youth. Let’s rekindle wonder and amazement. Let’s feed the soul—and remember to say thank you.
 
So, as the days grow shorter and the skies turn gray, may we hold fast to wonder. May we notice the twirling leaf, the giggle of a child, the hush of grace in ordinary things. And in all of it, may we whisper our thanks—softly, sincerely, and often.

Remembering as an Act of Love
 
The garden rests beneath fallen leaves, and the air carries a hush that feels sacred. All Souls’ Day invites us to pause, not in fear or sorrow, but in reverence. It is a day for remembering the departed, for honoring the ordinary saints whose lives shaped ours in quiet, enduring ways.
 
I think of hands that once planted seeds beside mine, voices that said grace over meals, laughter that filled kitchens now quiet. These souls, neighbors, friends, family, live on in the way we tend our gardens, share our recipes, offer kindness. Their legacy is stitched into our lives, not in grand gestures, but in simple, sacred rhythms.
 
All Souls’ Day reminds us that remembrance is an act of love. We carry our beloved dead not just in our hearts, but in our habits—in the way we stir soup, prune roses, greet strangers with warmth. Their stories become our own.
 
So today, I walk slowly. I listen deeply. In the hush of November, I feel them near, not gone, but woven into the fabric of this life. Saints, not by title, but by tenderness.
 
May we honor them with memory and with mercy. May the garden bloom and reflect the beauty they left behind.

​Firelight, Folklore, and the Thin Places
 
On this All Hallows’ Eve, we honor what the Celts called the “thinnest of thin times”—a night when the veil between worlds nearly vanishes. The ancient Celts believed the dead could walk among the living, and to ward off wandering souls, they lit fires that blazed through the night.
 
Tonight, we’ll kindle our own fire—not out of fear, but in celebration. Wrapped in blankets, warmed by homemade chili, and surrounded by tradition.
 
Samhain also marks the end of harvest and the Celtic new year. As the wheel turns, this season of rest is welcome for this old gardener. Though I miss the growing season, I cherish this sacred pause before the dreaming of spring begins again.
 
Pumpkin carving has long been part of our ritual, and behind it lies a tale worth retelling. It begins, as many Irish stories do, in a pub.
 
Stingy Jack, a notorious trickster, once outwitted the devil—convincing him to turn into a silver coin to pay for drinks. Jack slipped it into his pocket beside a crucifix, trapping the devil. He freed him only after making a promise: Jack’s soul would never be claimed.
 
When Jack died, heaven and hell both refused him. Condemned to wander, his soul drifted through the dark countryside. People carved frightening faces into turnips and pumpkins to keep him at bay. Some say the devil, in pity, gave Jack a single ember from hell’s fire. Jack placed it in a hollowed-out gourd to light his way—and so the jack-o’-lantern was born.
 
As the fire crackles and the veil thins, I listen—not just to wind and story, but to the stirrings within. Samhain invites us to honor endings and beginnings, to rest, and to remember. In the garden, the soil sleeps. In the spirit, something ancient awakens.
 
Tonight, may flame and chili nourish more than our bodies. May they feed memory, musing, and hope. And if you feel a whisper on the wind, perhaps it’s Stingy Jack—or something deeper calling us to reflect, remember, and renew.

​Thin Times and Rainy Days
Psalm 77:11
"I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your wonders of old."
 
It is chilly, dark, and wet outside in the Garden this late October morning. The little Garden Doodle is decidedly unimpressed with this old Gardener. She was told we’d have to wait until the rain lets up before our morning walkabout. Her “I don’t like that answer” look said it all. But she’s fine now, curled up in her favorite chair by the fireplace, fast asleep.
 
There’s a certain comfort that goes with a rainy day. A quiet invitation from the Creator to slow down, to let thoughts and emotions ebb and flow with the rhythm of the raindrops. Days like this are a gentle summons to simply be. The fireplace is roaring. The puppy is dreaming. Coffee is warm and steady in hand. Classical music plays in the background. We let our minds wander. We remember.
 
This season is the thinnest of Thin Times. A sacred threshold when memories of those who have gone before draw near. We remember. We feel their presence. We revisit the stories tucked away in quiet corners of the heart. We reflect on the journey, on the lessons etched into our souls like water droplets on autumn leaves.
 
Deuteronomy 32:7
"Remember the days of old; consider the years of many generations; ask your father, and he will show you, your elders, and they will tell you."
 
It’s a good day to fall into those rainy-day thoughts. A good day for another cup of coffee. To settle into a comfortable chair and simply be. To fall into stories, into memory, into grace—and embrace the moment.
 
As the rain whispers against the windows and the fire hums its warmth, we remember the days of old. We consider the years of many generations. We ask, and the stories come, soft and sacred, echoing through the Thin Time.

​In the Quiet Mist
“Be still, and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10
 
There is a quiet mist in the air this Monday morning in the Carondelet Garden. The weekend brought a gentle, steady rain, a welcome gift as we journey deeper into the golden hush of Autumn. The soil, softened and grateful, receives the moisture like a blessing.
 
It is harvest time in the Garden. The carrots, bold and abundant, grew larger than ever this year, a small miracle beneath the surface, now revealed. Harvest, of course, is about gathering the goodness. But it is also a season of remembering. Of reckoning. Of resting in what has been sown.
 
This is the time of year when the Garden becomes a sanctuary, a place where you can feel the heartbeat of the Creator in every rustling leaf and fading bloom. There’s a sacred hush that settles in, and with it, a sense of belonging. I am getting older. In many ways, I find myself in the Autumn years of my own life. And yet, there is beauty here too.
 
I no longer race the sunset in traffic. I can sit and watch it unfold slowly and splendidly, across the sky. I can be content with where I’ve been, and grateful for what I’ve learned. I’m beginning to understand that today, this very day, is a gift. A chance to do good. To love well. To become more fully who I was always meant to be.
 
Aging, I’m learning, is not about loss. It’s about clarity. It’s about letting go of the need to prove and leaning into the call to be. I used to wonder: Who am I, if I can no longer do what I once did? Does it matter? Do I matter?
 
The answer is yes — but not in the way I once thought. This is the season to look inward. To draw strength not from the flesh, but from the spirit. To trust that the seeds planted long ago are still bearing fruit — in quiet ways, in unseen places.
 
As Paul reminds us in Galatians 6:9:
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
 
Keep tending. Keep hoping. Keep harvesting.

​Making Space
"Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me."
—Psalm 51:10
 
The Winter Pansies are settling into the Parterre Garden. There’s something magical about them—these delicate blooms with an innate ability to withstand frigid temperatures and snow yet continue to flower. We usually plant them in early October, and they’ll often still be blooming come June. Such a gift.
 
Right now, we’re in the final throes of moving plants and buttoning things up before the inevitable arrival of the first frost. The issue in the garden isn’t beauty, it’s space. We’ve done a fantastic job of filling every nook and cranny with vibrant life. But now, we have a few more plants than we have room for.
 
I’ve been thinking a lot about space lately. Not just in the garden, but in my life. How much space I give to things I have absolutely no control over. I allow people, pain, or problems to take over the limited space I have—and it leaves no room for faith, or hope, or love.
 
You can’t create more space. The space around you, and the space in your schedule, is always the same. What changes is how much of it is already taken up. If you want to experience more space—for joy, for rest, for the things that matter most—you have to let go of what’s already occupying it.
 
That might mean releasing “stuff.” Or stepping back from commitments. Or shedding habits, grudges, or past hurts. If you want more space in your life, in your head, or in your heart, the path is through letting go.
 
It’s time to let some of those things go. It can be painful, yes. But it’s necessary for our well-being. I’m an old man, and some of my “baggage” is getting far too heavy to haul around anymore. It’s time to lighten the load. It’s time to make space.
 
May we all find the courage to clear the clutter, lighten the load, and make space for what truly blooms.

Grace Upon Grace
"From his fullness we have all received, grace upon grace."
—John 1:16
 
There’s a chill in the air that confirms Autumn’s arrival. Our first fire of the season crackles in the hearth, warming the room while sunlight spills across the floor. The coffee is brewed, and the little Doodle, having completed her morning walkabout, is curled contentedly in her favorite chair. It’s a gentle, promising start to the day.
 
The Acorn Squash has been harvested. From just four plants in our small urban garden, we gathered a bounty of thirty squash. Grace upon grace. Over the next few weeks, we enter the final harvest season, a time that invites reflection, celebration, and deep gratitude.
 
Gratitude beckons us in during this season of gathering. It reminds us not only of the blessings we receive daily, but also of the sacredness of creation itself. We give thanks for the wisdom the garden offers, quiet, persistent, and generous.
 
I’m looking forward to the rest of the harvest. The Butternut Squash is nearly ripe. The Fall Lettuce is coming along, and the Carrots are ready to be pulled today. As I walk the garden paths, I find myself reminiscing about Spring, when we first mapped out what we hoped to grow. I’m reminded that nothing flourishes without intention, without effort. The garden is a mirror: it reflects the work we’ve done and the grace that meets us there.
 
This October morning whispers a truth I’m trying to live into:
If I want more generosity in the world, I must be more generous.
If I long for kindness and gentleness, I must embody them.
If I seek gratitude, I must give thanks for the abundant grace I receive each day.
 
Nothing happens without the work. But oh, how beautiful the yield when we tend with love.
 
“The secret of life is to let every segment of it produce its own yield at its own pace. Every period has something new to teach us. The harvest of youth is achievement; the harvest of middle-age is perspective; the harvest of age is wisdom; the harvest of life is serenity.

• Joan Chittister

Send the Rain
“You sent abundant rain, O God, to refresh the weary land.” — Psalm 68:9
 
This weekend, the skies finally opened. After weeks of drought, the rain came.  A soft, steady, and sacred gift. Nearly four inches fell, soaking into the earth like grace. I found myself thinking of the worship song by William Orcutt: “We’ve been praying. We’ve been sowing. Now we’re crying. Send the rain!” And it came. Not just to the garden, but to the soul.
 
The replenishing moisture transformed the garden overnight. Flowers perked up, soil darkened with promise, and the air felt washed clean. It was a refreshing touch from above, a reminder that what we sow in faith is never forgotten.
 
Rain has a way of slowing the world down. Its rhythm invites reflection, a pause to sit with gratitude for the nourishment it brings, not just to the earth, but to our spirits. It teaches us to trust the cycles of life, both the storms and the calm.
 
Just as rain nurtures the soil, challenges in life help us grow. They soften our hardened places, stir up dormant hopes, and prepare us for possibility. So let the rain remind us that even the grayest skies hold the promise of renewal. The garden knows this. And so, deep down, do we.
 
As the garden drinks deeply and the weary land is refreshed, may our hearts do the same. Let us receive the rain, not just as water, but as grace. A reminder that even gray skies can bring growth. In every season, the Creator sends what we need.

​We Bloom Until the End
“They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green.” — Psalm 92:14
 
The clouds are gathering, heralding the weekend’s forecast of rain. We welcome this heavenly moisture—it’s the Garden’s baptism, a renewal of soil and soul alike. Everything looks a bit tired and faded just now, but a good soaking will revive the weary stems and refresh the colors that remain.
 
Even as the plants begin their quiet descent into winter, they do not mourn the passing of time. They age with grace, offering their best until the very end. That is their gift. And perhaps one of the gifts of aging—for us—is learning to rest in who we are, rather than grieving who we are not.
 
It’s not aging itself that unsettles us, but the fear of it. The dread of decline, of irrelevance, of invisibility. But life does not end until it ends. And in the meantime, there is so much more to do.
 
When we count age only in losses, we miss the wonder. Aging is not a condition to be pitied, nor a state to apologize for. As an old gardener, I see it as my sacred duty to remain vibrant and bright—to bloom in spirit, even as the seasons shift. I don’t know how much time I have left, but I am determined not to waste it.
 
This is the part of life the Psalmist must have meant when he prayed, “O taste and see that the Lord is good.” There is sweetness still. Even now. Especially now.